Today I was having sex with a trusted partner. The dynamics of our relationship changed recently, so before sex I made sure to lay down the Made In 1924 98 Years Of Being Awesome Flowers 1924 Birthday T-Shirt and I will buy this ground rules of what I was comfortable with. Wouldn’t you know it, once things started getting hot my partner almost immediately broke one of the ground rules. Normally I would let it happen, and then just get the sex over with. But today was different. Lately I’ve been working on speaking up, and so that’s what I did. Maybe about a minute or so after my partner broke the rules I called a time out and went to the bathroom. I collected my self and came back to the room. I told my partner. “Hey, I gave you boundaries and you immediately broke them, I am no longer willing to have sex with you”.
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Y’all the Made In 1924 98 Years Of Being Awesome Flowers 1924 Birthday T-Shirt and I will buy this look on his face. He knew he fucked up. He said “idk why I did that”. I told him yeah it sucks cuz now neither of us get to have fun. He said that he felt bad, and I told him that he should because he broke trust and a sexual boundary. It means so much to me to hear all the ladies that struggle to assert themselves too. It’s sad that boundary crossing happens so frequently. To read your responses saying that this post helped you game plan for future encounters really made me glad that I posted it. I hope all you ladies are able to assert your needs. It’s scary, but it feels amazingwonderful. i ESPECIALLY love how you got his ‘idk why i did that’ and it didn’t deflect you at all. no weaseling out. no do-overs. you acknowledged it, AND you reinforced the boundary. I recently noticed that I really need to learn not to jump in and comfort the other person in situations like this. It’s a lose-lose situation. Either I give in, feel bad and the boundary-pusher gets what he wanted or I stop the action, feel bad, comfort him so he doesn’t feel bad anymore and still feel bad myself. He takes away my boundary and even takes my care while I receive none