If he cannot have these conversations with you, then he is not ready, or should longer be in a long term, committed relationship with you. Unless you are mean to him or disparaging him, it’s very likely not your fault and not in your control. Maybe there are issues he’s afraid to bring up and having those difficult conversations will help. But maybe what’s in his heart has changed over time. Talking to him is the Hikaru nakamura thinking fan art chess player classic shirt besides I will buy this first step, though, otherwise you risk putting yourself out there and making yourself vulnerable over and over by guessing what he wants. Thank you so much for taking the time to elaborate your thoughts and sharing your advice with me. Yes it is true. I am avoiding those conversations because I am afraid of the outcome. I know that is the best way but it will take some time to get the courage and sit and talk. Knowing my partner wants me. That shit is hot. When she says something about missing my touch or wanting this or that. Passionate kissing, foreplay. Probably all the same shit that gets women in the mood really.
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My personal favorite is the Hikaru nakamura thinking fan art chess player classic shirt besides I will buy this sound of the ice cream truck, because the kids had to eat their ice cream outside. 😈 The look on my oldest’s face when she realized (at 25) why her mother and I refer to the sounds of an approaching ice cream truck as, “Honey, they’re playing our song!” was one of my finest dad moments ever. My wife telling me she loves me in a serious way. After 30 years of marriage I still love to hear her tell me she loves me. Not in the casual daily way, but in the way I know she means it. My FWB just has to say a few words and somehow she kidnaps me in her room for hours. I once spent an entire Sunday trapped in her room because we were keeping things hush hush. Man, I wish someone would trap me in their room for a whole day because they were that sexually attracted to me. Never happened in 42 years. If you’re looking for more of an answer than this toxic “guys are always in the mood, lol” BS … unresoIved or under-resolved conflict in a relationship can be a barrier to sex for some men. Add to this the pressure to perform because we’re always supposed to be in the mood (see every other comment in this thread) and it can make things worse. Not saying things must be perfect to have sex, but if frequency or intensity of sex has significantly dropped … it might mean that some emotional intimacy needs to be restored. This, one of the side effects of my depression meds is low sex drive. Which in turn makes me sad whenever I reject my partner. I can tell you what doesn’t because that is just as important. My gf does no flirting throughout the day. When she wants sex she just asks for it outright or cuddles up to me and rubs my arm. Both methods are fine unless they’re exclusively used like she does.